Walk to the Throne!

Just as a Cloud that congregates the water vapor droplets before showering the rain onto the land. In the first place, I will adapt the valuable insights from my mentors and then implementing them into my lifestyle, I am habituated to post them in to my blog contents, if they fetch any positive outcomes in my life hustles. This is the reason why in-spite of flexible schedules my blogs aren't frequent.

Acknowledgement: I express my utmost gratitude towards my Spirituality Teachers, Mentors, Parents, Friends and well wishers, whose insightful teachings helped me to create the content of this Blog.

Disclaimer: The mentioned holy contents of this blog are referred from standard organisations, the contents are purely intended for sharing the wisdom and not to promote or condemn any religious beliefs.

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A special respect to this era of instant messaging and virtual communication, which helped me to stay engaged with my contacts. Having quality conversations with my well wishers is one joyful thing that i did during this pandemic lock-down. Conversations that started from digging up the mutual memories to landing upon the thoughts about future endeavors ended up with the inference of one common thing, lack of kick start towards a delightful vision. Be it is a goal to start a YouTube channel, setting up a podcasts, beginning with the civil services exam preparation, Making up a website etc, most of my peers made their endeavour remained as a paused passions. One such story of mine, which i would like to share with you through this blog.

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Mid of December, 2019.

Travelling towards the end of the year, looking back at the paused goal made me, stop to think about any fresh resolutions for the upcoming year. Regret had surrounded me from all the corners of my heart as i failed to start for one biggest resolution of my life.

                      Around the mid of November 2019, a brutal news that was broadcasted on television broken my heart and as a human i couldn't tolerate it. As an Engineer, I looked it as a problem and determined to develop any technical solution for that. I made my plan which estimated my time requirement of almost 2 years. My spirits were paramount at the time of making the resolution but got diluted with respect to time. So at the end of December when I was about to look back, I regretted for not even being able to start my resolution in that duration of one month. So this time in spite of making up any new dreams I want to complete my past plans. 

As I once failed at it in my past, This time, I thought to self analyse my mistakes at the first place. On that self scrutiny process, I realised that as my vision was incredible and my goal is the toughest, unlike the previous others that I had in my life until that moment. The aim seemed to be incredibly challenging, questioning my abilities and worth to reach it. These aroused a sensible fear in me that gradually diluted my spirits. I feared as it was difficult to extreme, ambiguous, unstructured.

This time rather than just diving deep into the action, I thought to have a fresh ever motivation at first, that helps me to travel with my plan. At that moment i recollected one of my favourite stanza (Shloka) from an holy book (The Bhagavad-gita).

क्लैब्यं मा स्म गम: पार्थ नैतत्त्वय्युपपद्यते |

क्षुद्रं हृदयदौर्बल्यं त्यक्त्वोत्तिष्ठ परन्तप

                In the epic mythology of mahabharat, when Arjun ( Mightiest warrior of the world) remained in self doubt to continue the battle. Lord krishna ( Human incarnation of Divine) quoted the above sloka, which summarizes. " O Parth, it does not befit you to yield to this unmanliness. Give up such petty weakness of heart and arise, O vanquisher of enemies.". Since my childhood I believed that this single poem is enough to win the life. After years, this poem won me the courage. 

                 As a single bath  can't maintain the hygiene in perpetuity, and demands for a daily practice of it. Motivation can rise the spirits at a moment but to assist the goals practically there should be a strong self monitoring mechanism. For which I choose the following tool. 

                 At the start of every year we look for ourselves further in one or five years and later at the end of that year we regret for not fulfilling the resolutions. So this time I want to break this wheel by reframing the question of " What should I do to make me happy after a year?" would I be happy with me after 5 years, if I remain the same as whom I am at now? My answer at that moment is "No". 

                With all the support from above mentioned aspects I took up the plan of fulfilling my goal. To my surprise the objective which I thought would take 2 years of my time got completed in just 2 months. 

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Coming back to today :-

Unanswered delay of passions are mainly due to the procrastination, which is an end effect of Fear. If you have any paused passions as i once had, i highly suggest you to go through following key points.

• Filters of Cause and Passion, Before setting up a goal, let your resolution pass through these filters and answer you whether it is cause driven and serves any purpose?

• FEAR can be mainly caused due to worries about Failure, Expectations, Abilities and Regrets.

• Failure : In this progressive world, "The person who stood at last never last there and the person who stood first never last there". Never let the fear of failure stop you to enjoy the crisp of delicious curvature of success.

• Expectations: We all are beginners, let your First Youtube video, First Podcast episode, First business post, First Speech, First Day be awkward, Just do it. Remember that every king is once a cried baby and every monumental construction was once a layout plan it is not about who you are today but it is all about whom you want to become tomorrow.

• Abilities: As mentioned in the above stanza, trust your capabilities and keep going with the battle perhaps that is what going to make you the mightier.

• Regrets: Results or Regrets you can have either one of these, choose one that suits you the best. "Come back is always beautiful than Fall Back".

Remember, 

In a jungle, Elephant might be the biggest, Giraffe might be the tallest, Cheetah might be the fastest, Fox might be the cleverest but The Lion got coronated to be a king as it is the Bravest. 

Master these elements of winning over the fears and walk to the throne of your kingdom. 

- - with love, dsp️.