Relationships - in my view.

It is quite common for my readers to feel extremely surprising when such a romantic title is encountered in my blog. Though am passion-driven individual who has absolutely no interest in relationships and this content is not in my area of expertise, I want to post this blog for a purpose. Love is a flavour of Life and Relationships is an approach to that. I have my readers from all over the globe with varying genders, ages and traditions. With that advantage, I always had a privilege to expand the radius of my knowledge, understanding and maturity levels. I often observe that my contacts suffering from relationship failures and tends to fall in a deep loop of depression which reduces their self-esteem. This is the reason behind the origin of this blog.

In this blog, I am just going to mention my opinions which I drew from my life mentors, advisors, seniors and friends.

A relationship is a way for mutual lifestyle with a thread of love connecting both. Relationships are supposed to deal with the utmost sensitivity and objectivity yet they tend to fail for most of the people.

Why Do Relationships Fail?

Relationships can be referred to as the journey but however the root cause to it is the divine love. The journey seems unpleasant only if the start of it lacks significance. Most of the people who failed in relationships are the ones who fell in love very quickly. Movies cant be a perfect resemblance to the practical situations. Love, at first sight, can happen only in the movies. We can't have a decision for life in a matter of seconds.

You might think you know the person but you just know what you think they are.

You might think you know their past but you just know parts of their past.

You might think you know their passions, but you just know their temporary plans.

These outcomes of misunderstanding which evolved from a quickly established foundation of love can lead to relationship failure.

How can we fix that?

In the book of Life, One must possess passion and purpose. We can only discover true love when we stand honest with us. To form a purposeful true and deep relationship I think the below-mentioned points can help you.

1) Don't fall in love quickly. You can have love in an instance, you can just have feelings in the instance. A Relationship which is established by Falling at one sight doesn't mean they were in love, it rather means they were in feelings.

2) Look for the partner who respects your commitment towards your passion. Who can fuel up your energy level for better performance and can lead you to brighter results.

3) A true partner can make you enjoy their presence and make you forget the environment, Mobiles and other distractions. They can help you to Live at the moment.

4) A genuine partner will earn your trust rather than being obsessed. Trust is an ideal feeling, Let others genuinely earn it.

5) Get to know about each other clearly, Love can only be established when you find out the similarities and respect the differences between you.

If you broke up?

No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone. I can understand such a melancholic feeling you experienced when all your love dreams got shattered in an unexpected way. If this happened with you or you doubt this may happen with you later then my dear reader I want you to understand that.

It is not Love that hurt you, It is the one whom you thought they loved you did it. If someone says I Love You and didn't mean it, It doesn't mean love doesn't exist. You may find it later in a genuine partner, don't punish yourself from being away from this magical feeling just because of someone's mistake. Don't tend to blame yourself for the failure of your relationship. Fill your life with Passion and Purpose. Passion is the one out of your interests and the purpose is the service to make others lives better. Let your broken heart pump out the accumulated depression and give it the time to heel. Start dealing with yourself and bring a positive change in the others through your actions.

Remember that you are not the only one going through this failure, help others who are suffering out like you and with the act of kindness in human coexistence everyone can make this world a better place.

We often feel Romeo and Juliet who died together as relationship goals but for me, it's my parents who support and love each other at every situation of life are the true relationship goals. If life is a meal then Love is a delicious flavour of it. To every genuine person who truly in search of love, I wish you to find love in this 2020.

If you like this blog, please don't forget to share this with your dear friends. Somewhere someone can truly find this helpful. All the above-mentioned content is my understanding of love and the lessons I've learned from my mentors. If you find this helpful please let me know.

-- with love, dsp.