Let the old out, make the new in

My Journey with 2018

After my birth, I had seen many calendars turning out, Every new calendar pushed me to dream about a short-term goal, but to my surprise, none of them worked out really. which is quite common with most of the people, We do dream about small changes in our lives at the end of a year, we often feel passionate to achieve it at the beginning of the next year, We remain failed by end of that year. This is what happened to me too.

Till the end of 2017 I used to have the same cycle of experiences periodically, Which made me a bit confused, muddled, vexed etc. For the first time, I wished to break the wheel, by the self-inspection and adoption of new ideology into me.

In the process, one question continuously haunted me, "What made you fail in the past?" which needs to be answered first. Through a rigorous retrospection on several thought experiments, I came to discover that the reason behind my failure is due to the presence of "no me in my acts". Which means every act I do (or) every routine which is happening in my daily lifestyle is just happening naturally, they are not designed by my ideology. I just followed people in many things because it is predetermined in the society, might be daily schedule, might be one-night batting before exams, similarly, everything is happening without the intervention of my ideology. This is the reason I failed in the past, yes because many of the people plan for changes at the beginning of the year, tend to be failed by the end of the year.

Finally, I got answers to all my questions and had a path to make 2018 a better one. The path is that my ideology should follow my decisions, But to make this formula stay alive throughout the year I came across a need of motivation, which again designed by my ideology, The motivation is nothing but a small line

"Why Should I?"

This magical 3 words made my year! You might be wondering how come three words can change up the situations, but the answer is "yes! they made an impact.!" By the implementation of these three words before my decision making, I came to know that whether I am doing that particular thing as it is predetermined by some other people (or) I am incapable of making something new? Which used to make my eyes open and bring a fresh thought out of my ideology.

I came to

Believe before pray

listen before speak

think before write

try before quit

find reason before my acts

Now its end of 2018, unlike the past I am very happy by this completion and excited to heartily welcome a new one.

If you suffer for the same reason, just examine within your self and unleash your abilities, "Let the old out and the new in!"

-- With love, Dsp

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